is my friend using me?she cheats on her boyfriend and i get yelled at for it!PLZ reply?
April 4th, 2009 | by Kert |
Tiffany B asked:
i hav this best friend from school.we’ve been gr8 friends for the past 7 years.i hav a boyfriend and so does she.
she cheats on him all the time and makes me lie to him whenever she goes out with another guy,that she’s with me.the main problem is that her boyfriend is like the creepiest guy i’ve ever met.he’s already taken her away against her wishes and i’ve begged her to stay away from him but she doesnt listen to me.he has also mentally abused her a no. of times.telling the police hasn’t helped any cuz he has them eating out of the palm of his hand.she comes to me for any help she needs with him and i’ve always been there for her,telling her to stand up for herself always.i’ve tried to ask her to break off from him but she refuses.i’ve asked her to be honest with him but she’s too scared to.
everytime she goes out with another guy,even if its just as a friend,she tells her bf that she’s been out with me.even when she calls up anyone else to talk,she asks me to tell him,if he asks me,that she’s been talking to me.any advice on ANYTHING that she gets, is supposed to be from me, according to him and her.
recently,he’s gotten really pissed off that “i’ve” been giving her “revolutionary,independant crap” ideas and called me up and threatened to tell my parents all about me and my bf.
my parents **** my bf and hav asked me to break off with him a million times.i’ve told them i hav but i hav not.
my parents are not doing very well healthwise and i dont think they can take the news very well that i’ve still been going out with my bf.
my best friend’s bf is seriously demented and a drunkard.
i’m getting **** scared that he’ll either tell my parents or bash up my boyfriend to get back at me or get someone to **** me.
i cant stop speaking to my best friend cuz her bf wants me to be her friend without talking about him AT ALL.
i’ve told him i’ll help him with any help he needs from her and he’s cooled down but he’s still an active volcano.just dormant presently.
i hav this best friend from school.we’ve been gr8 friends for the past 7 years.i hav a boyfriend and so does she.
she cheats on him all the time and makes me lie to him whenever she goes out with another guy,that she’s with me.the main problem is that her boyfriend is like the creepiest guy i’ve ever met.he’s already taken her away against her wishes and i’ve begged her to stay away from him but she doesnt listen to me.he has also mentally abused her a no. of times.telling the police hasn’t helped any cuz he has them eating out of the palm of his hand.she comes to me for any help she needs with him and i’ve always been there for her,telling her to stand up for herself always.i’ve tried to ask her to break off from him but she refuses.i’ve asked her to be honest with him but she’s too scared to.
everytime she goes out with another guy,even if its just as a friend,she tells her bf that she’s been out with me.even when she calls up anyone else to talk,she asks me to tell him,if he asks me,that she’s been talking to me.any advice on ANYTHING that she gets, is supposed to be from me, according to him and her.
recently,he’s gotten really pissed off that “i’ve” been giving her “revolutionary,independant crap” ideas and called me up and threatened to tell my parents all about me and my bf.
my parents **** my bf and hav asked me to break off with him a million times.i’ve told them i hav but i hav not.
my parents are not doing very well healthwise and i dont think they can take the news very well that i’ve still been going out with my bf.
my best friend’s bf is seriously demented and a drunkard.
i’m getting **** scared that he’ll either tell my parents or bash up my boyfriend to get back at me or get someone to **** me.
i cant stop speaking to my best friend cuz her bf wants me to be her friend without talking about him AT ALL.
i’ve told him i’ll help him with any help he needs from her and he’s cooled down but he’s still an active volcano.just dormant presently.
i have to lie for her all the time cuz i know she can get into really bad trouble with him if she dont so i do it.
is she using me to get out of trouble with him?
how do i solve this?
i’m 21. so are my bf and my best friend. her bf is 26 yrs old.
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PLZ plz plz help.
thanks for answering!
i’m living with my parents cuz i’m indian.
i love my bf too much to leave him,i dont wanna change him…he’s helped me thru everything including molest and attempted rape
ELIAS
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